Just a reminder that it’s okay if you’re still figuring yourself out and you don’t have to already know yourself completely, even if you’re older or everyone else seems to have themselves figured out.
You are always learning and growing as a person and changing, and you won’t always have everything figured out at 20.
1. caring about something/someone
2. not looking your best
3. being depressed
4. asking for help
5. following what you believe is right for you and not what’s right for everyone else
6. lending a hand to your friends in need
7. crying
8. BEING YOURSELF
You’re not over exaggerating. You’re not too sensitive. You’re not too much. If it hurts you it fucking hurts you. If it makes you angry, then it makes you angry. There’s nothing wrong with you for feeling.
I’ve seen a bunch of people in the notes concerned (like I was) of comparisons of members of the lgbt to dogs: but upon visiting their website I was reassured that they monitor a variety of content, including (but not limited to):
THIS IS A GOOD SITE
I just wanna reblog this here and point out that this is actually a site I use a lot.
Im not one of those who get like overly upset by passing of dogs in movies, but growing up in a family where we had to put down a lot of dogs ourselves that we loved very dearly, it does break the immersion for me, which ruin movies.
…I am a liberal Jewish cinephile who loves “Blackkklansman” and “Mrs. Maisel.” I also fear for my community. Recently, discussions about minority representation in Hollywood have become amplified. Scarlett Johansson exited the film “Rub and Tug” after a powerful backlash against her casting as a transgender man. The success stories of “Crazy Rich Asians” and “Black Panther” have been heralded as proof that diversity and inclusion lead to not only great art but also good money.
It demonstrates progress that Hollywood is beginning to care that minorities represent themselves, and that actors have begun to recognize their missteps. It seems, however, that while progress has been made, Jews have been left out of conversations about representation.
“Mrs. Maisel” and “Blackklansman” are incredibly nuanced and complex in their discussions of religion, community and culture. They are written by masters of their respective crafts. Their sophistication makes the blind spots even more jarring.
Spike Lee famously helped lead the public outcry against the hiring of Norman Jewison, a white man, as director of the Malcolm X biopic he eventually took over. Lee understands the importance of minorities telling their own stories. So why does he disregard Jews’ right to the same self-actualization and narrative autonomy?
It’s obviously not that Jews aren’t in the room in Hollywood; we are. Perhaps we are often absent from conversations about inclusion because many people view Judaism as just a religion, and believe that anyone can convincingly play any religion.
But Judaism is a religion with a rich history of persecution and isolation, and a resulting culture that transcends a shared belief in a certain type of God. Which is to say, it is also a heritage and an ethnicity. Although I had a Bat Mitzvah when I was a tween, I do not consider myself religious. Still, Judaism is a significant part of my identity that has only grown stronger in the past year as Neo-Nazis have become increasingly courageous and anti-Semitism normalized by the President and other political leaders. This Jewish experience, a cultural and not religious yet incredibly rich one, is not unique.
Despite recent events such as the Tree of Life Synagogue mass shooting, Jews’ status as a threatened minority is not always taken seriously, perhaps because some industries (such as film) are associated with Jewish domination. Meanwhile, Anti-Semitic incidents are on the rise, having risen 57% from 2016 to 2017., the single largest jump on record. In New York City, where “Mrs. Maisel” is set, anti-Semitic hate crimes account for 44% of the city’s total hate crimes while Jews are only 18% of the population, according to data from 2017. Many assume that Jews reap the benefits of a completely assimilated minority. White Jews certainly benefit from white privilege, but we are still fighting for equitable representation on screen.
So despite the joy I feel in seeing my heritage represented in “Mrs. Maisel” and “Blackklansman,” I am left with lingering discomfort. What are storytellers really saying when they tell Jewish stories without Jewish actors? Are actors like Brosnahan and Driver being cast because they look Jewish? Did casting directors sit in a room and discuss whether an actor looked enough like a minority that they are not? Should we be comfortable with this casting practice?
I do not mean to suggest that Jews are more important than other minorities or deserve more empathy. I do not disregard the importance of representation for others nor the progress that has been made. But if there is to be a cultural shift towards accurate casting, I don’t want Jews left out of the conversation. I applaud Brosnahan and Driver as artists because they gave soulful, captivating performances. But I am left wondering if there are Jews out there who could do the job.
The oldest daughter of R Kelly and his ex-wife Andrea is speaking out for the first time since multiple women made accusations of rape and abuse against the accused pedophile on the Lifetime docuseries Surviving R Kelly.
In a lengthy and emotional post that was shared on her Instagram page, 20-year-old Joann Kelly explained why she has remained silent about the allegations being made about her father while showing her support for the singer’s alleged victims.
‘The same monster you all confronting me about is my father. I am well aware of who and what he is. I grew up in that house,’ wrote Joann, who performs under the name Buku Abi.
She then explained her silence by stating: ‘My choice to not speak on him and what he does is for peace of mind. My emotional state. And for MY healing.
‘I had to do and move in a manner that is best for me.’
Joann’s mother Andrea, who participated in the Lifetime series, filed a restraining order against her ex in 2005 following an altercation.
One year later she filed for divorce, and in 2009 the split was finalized, at which point she claims Kelly chose not to be a part of his children’s lives.
Most companies are probably going to continue their regular food safety procedures, but a few things you can do to reduce some personal risk:
Buy hard, solid veggies and fruits (apples, melons) or ones with rinds (bananas are probably fine). Scrub the peel/rind thoroughly with soap and water before consumption.
The more solid and dense the meat, the less likely it is for contamination to spread very far. Buy your meat in solid cuts, NOT GROUND. Especially not ground chicken rn, salmonella bad.
Cook things thoroughly. Follow guidelines for the internal temperatures meat is supposed to reach and stick to those guidelines. Use a meat thermometer. Make your steaks well done for a while.
I’d stay away from shellfish as a whole if I were you. The diseases you can get from it are some of the nastier ones. No sushi for a while, too. If you have fish, make sure it was frozen following anti-parasitic guidelines and cook thoroughly.
AVOID LEAFY GREENS. This is where we’ve been seeing the most outbreaks lately, so be very careful.
The pregnant, elderly, immunocompromised, and the very young are the ones most at risk in an outbreak. If you are in one of these groups, be extremely cautious and avoid soft cheeses and prepackaged deli meats. Check on friends and family in these groups. Report symptoms of foodborne illness to a doctor so they can report to the state health depts that are still running.
Even with these in mind, remember that most outbreaks of foodborne illness are due to things like improper cooking and storage. Stay safe out there, folks 💙